Very Often In Everyday Life One Sees That By Losing One's Temper With Someone Who Has Already Lost His, One Does Not Gain Anything But Only Sets Out Upon The Path Of Stupidity. He Who Has Enough Self-control To Stand Firm At The Moment When The Other Person Is In A Temper, Wins In The End. It Is Not He Who Has Spoken A Hundred Words Aloud Who Has Won; It Is He Who Has Perhaps Spoken Only One Word.

-Hazrat Inayat Khan

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Very Often In Everyday Life One Sees

Hazrat Inayat Khan

Very Often In Everyday Life One Sees That By Losing One's Temper With Someone Who Has Already Lost His, One Does Not Gain Anything But Only Sets Out Upon The Path Of Stupidity. He Who Has Enough Self-control To Stand Firm At The Moment When The Other Person Is In A Temper, Wins In The End. It Is Not He Who Has Spoken A Hundred Words Aloud Who Has Won; It Is He Who Has Perhaps Spoken Only One Word.

Topic

Winning

Self

Stupidity

In Sufi Terms The Crushing Of The Ego Is Called Nafs Kushi. And How Do We Crush It? We Crush It By Sometimes Taking Ourselves To Task. When The Self Says, 'o No, I Must Not Be Treated Like This,' Then We Say, 'what Does It Matter?' When The Self Says, 'he Ought To Have Done This, She Ought To Have Said That,' We Say, 'what Does It Matter, Either This Way Or That Way? Every Person Is What He Is; You Cannot Change Him, But You Can Change Yourself.' That Is The Crushing. ... It Is Only In This Way That We Can Crush Our Ego.

Crush

Self

Ego