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Looking Back, I Question Whether I Really Loved Nate, Or Just The Security Of Our Relationship. I Wonder If My Feelings For Him Didn’t Have A Lot To Do With Hating My Job. From The Bar Exam Through That First Hellish Year As An Associate, Nate Was My Escape. And Sometimes That Can Feel An Awful Lot Like Love.

I Still Think I Love Him More. It's One Of Those Things You Never Know For Certain Because There's No Way To Enter All The Relationship Data In A Computer And Have It Spit Out A Definitive Answer. You Can't Quantify Love, And If You Try, You Wind Up Focusing On Misleading Factors.

People Generally Didn't Cheat In Good Relationships.

But One Thing I Have To Say About Darcy And Dating Is This: She Never Blew Us Off For A Guy. She Always Put Her Friends First- Which Is An Amazing Thing For A High School Girl To Do.

I Remember That My Mother Once Told Me That The Opposite Of Love Isn't Hate, It's Indifference.