Many Black Men Leave Because They Are

As I Looked More Carefully At The Listening Matrix I Saw That During The Past Twenty Years We Had Taken A Magnifying Glass To The First Of These Four Quadrants, The Female Experience Of Powerlessness. I Saw I Was Subconsciously Making A False Assumption: The More Deeply I Understood Women's Experience Of Powerlessness, The More I Assumed Men Had The Power Women Did Not Have. In Fact, What I Was Understanding Was The Female Experience Of Male Power.

And With The Rape, I Was Showing Why The Rape Statistics Are Exaggerated, And Saying That Date Rape Was Much More Complex Than The Way Feminists Had Portrayed It, As Men Oppressing Women.

Women's Vulnerability Confessing Their Desire To See Men As A Success Object Is Matched By Men's Confession Of Compulsiveness Of Sexual Desire For Women.

Is A Man's Body At Stake? Any Time A Man Is Asked To Work To Pay Child Support, He Is Using His Body, His Time, His Life - Not For Nine Months, But For A Minimum Of 18 To 21 Years. So The Motto Of The Feminist With Integrity Is, 'it's A Woman's And Man's Right To Choose Because It Is A Woman's And Man's Body At Stake.'

For Example, The Equivalent Of A Woman Being Treated As A Sex Object Is A Man Being Treated As A Success Object.