It Can Be Much Harder To Be

Our Times Are Obsessed With Finding Fulfillment, So There Are Times When Some People Try Too Hard, And There Are People Who Want To Have The Newest Feelings Just As There Are Those Who Want To Have The Latest Model Car. You Can't Play At Love Any More Than You Can Be Proud Of Your Humility, Or Add Water To Your Perfume And Have It Smell The Same, But Men And Women Both Have Been Known To Try.

No Marriage Is One Person's Failure Any More Than It's One Person's Success, So It Works Best To See A Marriage That Has Ended Simply As Something That Didn't Work Out.

The Older I Get, The Clearer It Becomes To Me That No One Is Cheated In This World, Unless It's By Himself.

We Marry To Grow Up, To Escape Our Parents And To Inherit Our Share Of The World, Not Knowing Who We Are And Who We Will Become, So It Is Left To Marriage To Make It Clear Which Ones Of Us Are Growing In The Same Directions And Which Are Ships Meant To Have Passed In The Night.

Perhaps The Old View Of 'me Breadwinner, You Hausfrau' Worked For Our Grandparents, When People Obligingly Popped Off Before Boring Each Other To Death, But It Won't Work Any Longer Because We Are Living Too Long And Divorce Is Needed Today To Do What Death Acomplished More Economically Before.