I Would Like To Be Remembered As

Fat Is A Barrier, A Bellicose Statement To Others That, To Some, Justifies Hostility In Kind. The World Says To The Fat Person, "your Fatness Is An Affront To Me, So We Have The Right To Treat You As Offensively As You Appear." Fat Is Not Merely Viewed As Another Type Of Tissue, But As A Diagnostic Sign, A Personal Statement, And A Measure Of Personality. Too Little Fat And We See You As Being Antisocial, Fearful And Sexless. Too Much Fat And We See You As Slothful, Stupid, And Sexually Hung Up.

I Don't Recommend That People Speak Their Minds To Their Bosses Or To Somebody Who's Directly Over Them. You Need To Know When To Speak Your Mind And What The Penalty Will Be For Doing So. Sometimes It's Worth It, And Often It's Not!

If You Would Stop, Really Stop, Damning Yourself, Others, And Unkind Conditions, You Would Find It Almost Impossible To Upset Yourself Emotionally - About Anything. Yes, Anything.

There's No Evidence Whatsoever That Men Are More Rational Than Women. Both Sexes Seem To Be Equally Irrational.

People Are Terrified Of Other People Or Difficult Projects Because They Tell Themselves That They Could Fail Or Be Rejected. Failure Can Lead To Sorrow, Regret, Frustration And Annoyance - All Healthy, Negative Feelings Without Which People Couldn't Exist. But Then They Add, "i Absolutely Must Succeed And Must Be Loved By Significant Persons, And If I Don't, It's Terrible And I'm No Good." Those Are Irrational Beliefs. As Long As People Keep Them, They'll Be Terrified Of Life And Will Put Themselves Down When They Get Rejected.