Anyone Who Really Loves You Wants You

To Accept Struggle As Part Of Life, To Accept All Of It, Even The Darkest Moments Of Anguish; To Be Motivated By Love Rather Than Fear, By Confidence Rather Than Insecurity: These Are The Benchmarks Of High Self-esteem. The Wish To Avoid Fear And Pain Is Not The Motive That Drives The Lives Of Highly Evolved Men And Women; Rather, It Is The Life Force Within Them, Thrusting Toward Its Unique Form Of Expression-the Actualization Of Personal Values.

Your Life Is Important. Whether You Achieve What You Want In Life Matters. Whether You Are Happy Matters. Honor And Fight For Your Highest Potential. Self-realizatio N-the Realization Of The Best Within You-is The Noblest Goal Of Your Existence.

Integrity Is The Integration Of Ideals, Convictions, Standards, Beliefs-and Behavior. When Our Behavior Is Congruent With Our Professed Values, When Ideals And Practice Match Up, We Have Integrity.

Suffering Is Just About The Easiest Of All Human Activities; Being Happy Is Just About The Hardest. And Happiness Requires, Not Surrender To Guilt, But Emancipation From Guilt.

The Reputation You Have With Yourself - Your Self-esteem - Is The Single Most Important Factor For A Fulfilling Life.